{"id":8704,"date":"2022-04-30T15:26:00","date_gmt":"2022-04-30T15:26:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/onepathnetwork.com\/?p=8704"},"modified":"2022-07-22T03:45:15","modified_gmt":"2022-07-22T03:45:15","slug":"six-tips-for-raising-muslim-girls","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/onepathnetwork.com\/au\/society\/six-tips-for-raising-muslim-girls\/","title":{"rendered":"Six Tips for raising Muslim girls"},"content":{"rendered":"<amp-jwplayer layout=\"flex-item\" height=\"600\" data-player-id=\"bKajWAhe\" width=\"700\" data-media-id=\"818b6NOm\" class=\"wp-block-amp-amp-jwplayer\"><\/amp-jwplayer>\n\n\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Todays Challenge for Girls<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In society, <a href=\"https:\/\/yaqeeninstitute.org\/read\/paper\/women-in-the-quran-appreciating-female-faith-wisdom-and-knowledge\">women<\/a> are being objectified on daily basis. The idea of beauty, in this day and age, has been sexualized. Young girls look at them and they feel marginalised by this idea and feel they have to act, look and talk a certain way to be noticed. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So how are we, as Muslim parents, supposed to equip Muslim girls with the means to fight such dominating influences? <\/span>Here are six tips for raising Muslim girls<\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Let them know they\u2019re loved <\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Our children\u2019s appreciation of Allah is limited at a young age. Therefore, <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We should encourage them to please Allah out of love, and make sure they know that Allah loves them. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tell them stories about the Prophet <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\ufdfa and how he loved them and made du\u2019a for them without seeing them.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. Be a good listener <\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Speak to your daughter according to her level of understanding, and make sure you\u2019re aware of her \u201cage-specific\u201d needs. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Encourage your daughter to learn and thrive.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Verbal motivation is essential for girls, they need to know that you believe in them. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. Build their love for modesty <\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Clothes at the shops are not a good representation of modesty. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We should start teaching our daughters to have hayaa\u2019 (modesty) from a young age. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This will gradually make them inclined towards the idea of hijab. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Make sure that your daughter is celebrated once she wears the hijab. She should know her parents are proud of her. Modesty should be something that Muslim girls love not forced upon.<\/span><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_8733\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-8733\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/onepathnetwork.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/muslim-girls.jpg?ssl=1\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-8733\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/onepathnetwork.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/muslim-girls.jpg?resize=300%2C179&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Muslim Girls\" width=\"300\" height=\"179\" data-wp-pid=\"8733\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/onepathnetwork.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/muslim-girls.jpg?resize=300%2C179&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/onepathnetwork.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/muslim-girls.jpg?resize=400%2C239&amp;ssl=1 400w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/onepathnetwork.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/muslim-girls.jpg?w=495&amp;ssl=1 495w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-8733\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><em><strong>6 Tips for raising Muslim girls<\/strong><\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h3><strong>4. <\/strong><b>Role Models<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Our daughters should learn the stories of the <a href=\"https:\/\/onepathnetwork.com\/au\/the-great-women-of-islam\/\">great women in Islamic history<\/a>, such as:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Maryam the daughter of Imran<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Khadijah the daughter of Khuwaylid<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fatima the daughter of Muhammad<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Asiyah the wife of Fir&#8217;aun\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">and,<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8216;Aisha the daughter of Abu Bakr<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><strong>5. <\/strong><b>Love and Affection<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Develop a close bond with your daughter by showing love and affection. Let her know she is valued.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Remember how the Prophet <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\ufdfa<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> treated Fatima (RA).\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If she would enter the room and he is seated, he would get up and kiss her between her eyes, all the time.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><strong>6. <\/strong><b>Understand the blessing of a daughter<\/b><\/h3>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The Prophet <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\ufdfa said:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cWhosoever maintains two girls until they attain maturity, he and I will come on the Day of Judgment like this.\u201d (And he joined his two fingers held together)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/sunnah.com\/riyadussalihin:267\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Muslim<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Todays Challenge for Girls In society, women are being objectified on daily basis. The idea of beauty, in this day and age, has been sexualized. Young girls look at them and they feel marginalised by this idea and feel they have to act, look and talk a certain way to be noticed. 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