{"id":7662,"date":"2017-04-06T08:49:40","date_gmt":"2017-04-06T08:49:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/onepathnetwork.com\/?p=7662"},"modified":"2021-07-16T13:03:40","modified_gmt":"2021-07-16T13:03:40","slug":"stop-cursing-children","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/onepathnetwork.com\/au\/society\/stop-cursing-children\/","title":{"rendered":"Stop cursing your children"},"content":{"rendered":"<\/amp-jwplayer>\n\n\n\nDon\u2019t Curse Children\nDon\u2019t curse your children or verbally insult them\nDon\u2019t demean them or humiliate them\n\nChildren have emotional needs, which if neglected, will no doubt result in defiant patterns of behaviour and an unsettled child. Love, warmth, mercy and companionship is what they must have. Its the basic role of parenting to fulfil these needs \u2013 whether through kisses, hugs, kind words and time spent together. Whenever the Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) passed by children, he would greet them, put his hands on their heads and pick up the small ones in his arms.\n\nAnas ibn Malik (RA) said,\n
I served the Prophet for ten years, I lived with him for ten years and not once did he rebuke me. Not once did he say the word \u2018uff\u2019. He never said to me why did you do this or why didn\u2019t you do that.<\/blockquote>\nThe home was always meant to be a safe place, in which no harm is done. And when one thinks of harm, one mechanically thinks that as long as the child is not hit, then they are not being harmed, which is simply untrue. One of the definitions of \u201chome\u201d holds that it is the abiding place of affection. It is the place of nurture and development in which the foundations for the rest of one\u2019s life are set.\n\nNo father or mother can pass on life-skills or a develop a strong moral personality without a strong bond. Harshness yields nothing. The home needs an atmosphere benevolence in order to induce warmth. Not a single person out there has a reason not to smile in the face of their child. The Prophet Muhammad lost his mother, father, grandfather, uncle, two wives and his sons, yet his most consistence practice was his smile. Start with a gift if you must.\n\nAisha (RA) said\n
Exchange presents with one another for it adds the bonds of affection among you.<\/blockquote>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Don\u2019t Curse Children Don\u2019t curse your children or verbally insult them Don\u2019t demean them or humiliate them Children have emotional needs, which if neglected, will no doubt result in defiant patterns of behaviour and an unsettled child. Love, warmth, mercy and companionship is what they must have. Its the basic role of parenting to fulfil […]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":7663,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"video","meta":{"googlesitekit_rrm_CAow4-bBDA:productID":"","content-type":"","newspack_ads_suppress_ads":false,"episode_type":"","audio_file":"","cover_image":"","cover_image_id":"","duration":"","filesize":"","date_recorded":"","explicit":"","block":"","filesize_raw":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"apple_news_api_created_at":"","apple_news_api_id":"","apple_news_api_modified_at":"","apple_news_api_revision":"","apple_news_api_share_url":"","apple_news_cover_media_provider":"image","apple_news_coverimage":0,"apple_news_coverimage_caption":"","apple_news_cover_video_id":0,"apple_news_cover_video_url":"","apple_news_cover_embedwebvideo_url":"","apple_news_is_hidden":"","apple_news_is_paid":"","apple_news_is_preview":"","apple_news_is_sponsored":"","apple_news_maturity_rating":"","apple_news_metadata":"\"\"","apple_news_pullquote":"","apple_news_pullquote_position":"","apple_news_slug":"","apple_news_sections":[],"apple_news_suppress_video_url":false,"apple_news_use_image_component":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"newspack_featured_image_position":"","newspack_post_subtitle":"","newspack_hide_updated_date":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[137],"tags":[77],"series":[],"speaker":[],"coauthors":[140],"class_list":["post-7662","post","type-post","status-publish","format-video","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-society","tag-latest","post_format-post-format-video","entry"],"acf":[],"apple_news_notices":[],"episode_featured_image":"https:\/\/onepathnetwork.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Parents-ABuse-e1491468357836.jpg","episode_player_image":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/onepathnetwork.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/Mums-on-the-RunV3.jpg?fit=2160%2C2160&ssl=1","download_link":"","player_link":"","audio_player":false,"episode_data":{"playerMode":"dark","subscribeUrls":[],"rssFeedUrl":"https:\/\/onepathnetwork.com\/au\/feed\/podcast\/mums-on-the-run","embedCode":"

Stop cursing your children<\/a><\/blockquote>