{"id":10876,"date":"2018-03-20T14:54:11","date_gmt":"2018-03-20T14:54:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/onepathnetwork.com\/?p=10876"},"modified":"2021-07-16T11:53:50","modified_gmt":"2021-07-16T11:53:50","slug":"theres-nothing-funny-about-bullying","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/onepathnetwork.com\/au\/society\/theres-nothing-funny-about-bullying\/","title":{"rendered":"There\u2019s nothing funny about bullying"},"content":{"rendered":"<amp-jwplayer layout=\"flex-item\" height=\"600\" data-player-id=\"bKajWAhe\" width=\"700\" data-media-id=\"GsbH8Ejk\" class=\"wp-block-amp-amp-jwplayer\"><\/amp-jwplayer><h1><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There\u2019s nothing funny about bullying<\/span><\/h1>\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How many of us have been bullied in the past under the guise of sharing an innocent laugh with friends? Most people don\u2019t realise that there is a fine line between having a friendly laugh with someone and bullying them.<\/span>\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While it\u2019s perfectly fine to share a laugh with someone, it\u2019s a completely different story when you begin to laugh at them. This is even more so relevant, when the person you are laughing at is a complete stranger, as you don\u2019t know how they will interpret your innocent \u2018jokes\u2019.<\/span>\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s an unfortunate reality that many of us have fallen into &#8211; whether we be the subject of the jokes &#8211; or we be the ones saying them to others. We need to be very careful that the innocent laughter we have with those around us, doesn\u2019t lead to others develop feelings of sadness and embarrassment.<\/span>\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Allah, the exalted, speaks of this topic explicitly in the Quran when He states:<\/span>\n<blockquote><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">O you who have believed, let not a people ridicule [another] people; perhaps they may be better than them, nor let women ridicule [other] women; perhaps they may be better than them. And do not insult one another and do not call each other by [offensive] nicknames. Wretched is the name of disobedience after [one&#8217;s] faith. And whoever does not repent &#8211; then it is those who are the wrongdoers.<\/span><\/i>\n\n<i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quran 49:11<\/span><\/i><\/blockquote>\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is also narrated on the authority of A\u2019isha, may Allah be pleased with her that she said:<\/span>\n<blockquote><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI said to the Prophet \ufdfa \u2018It is enough for you that Safiyyah is such-and-such (meaning that she was short).\u2019<\/span><\/i>\n\n<i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The Prophet \ufdfa \u00a0replied:<\/span><\/i><b><i>\u2018You have said a word that could pollute the water of the sea if it were mixed with it.\u2019\u201d<\/i><\/b>\n\n<i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She also said, \u201cI once imitated a man before him and he (the Messenger) replied: I would never like to imitate anyone, even if I were to get such-and-such (a reward for it).\u2019\u201d <\/span><\/i>\n\n<i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Abu Dawud and Al-Tirmidhi<\/span><\/i><\/blockquote>\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">May Allah protect us from all forms of bullying that not only harm our fellow brothers and sisters but also severely diminish our good deeds.<\/span>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There\u2019s nothing funny about bullying How many of us have been bullied in the past under the guise of sharing an innocent laugh with friends? Most people don\u2019t realise that there is a fine line between having a friendly laugh with someone and bullying them. 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